Technically, coaches aren’t supposed to give advice. We’ve been trained to help our clients explore and discover their own sense of what is right for them and guide them through decision making methods and goal setting strategies that teach them to trust in their abilities. But every once in a while, when I’ve heard too many limiting beliefs from my incredibly amazing and powerful clients, I can’t help myself. I decided to share a short rant with all of you in the hopes that you will consider taking my advice and therefore have a more joyful month.
…trying to do everything. You can’t and you don’t need to. YOU ARE ENOUGH!
….trying to be perfect. It stops you from getting information and from enjoying the process.
…taking responsibility for everyone and everything. They’ll be fine without you and you’ll have more energy.
…saying “yes” to every request for your time, money and energy. There are others who would love to help out. Give them the chance.
…beating yourself down. You are beautiful, amazing and an absolute blessing to the planet. Be nice to yourself.
…thinking that you should know how to do everything. You don’t and it’s okay - you’re NOT SUPPOSED to know everything.
…thinking there’s something wrong with you. You’re not broken and nothing needs to be fixed.
…expecting, wishing, hoping that others are going to change. They won’t. Accept it. It will make your life sooo much easier.
…thinking that you can do “this” by yourself. You can’t. ASK FOR HELP! That’s why there are other people on the planet!